Monday, April 23rd at 2:00 pm we have our final hearing over the telephone with the judge to finalize the adoption.
Amy is 100% our daughter and has been since Mike and I fell in love with her in the hospital. (I am now a firm believer of love at first sight!)
Our finalization just symbolizes to me the end of the long, drawn out, painfully thorough legal process.
We've endured criminal background checks and having our finger prints taken at the court house, credit checks and financial analysis's, medical reports from thorough physicals, a series of 3 home studies with a social worker, 3 post placement visits with another social worker, 4 potential
birthmother matches/emotional roller coaster rides that didn't work out, 3 appointments with a consultant, writing illustrating and publishing our profile, and MILES of paperwork!
We have one last technicality to muster, and then we are legally free & clear.
And I'd do it all over again a
katrillion times for Amy.
There were so many acts of fate that fell perfectly into place for us to be fortunate enough to adopt Amy. Looking back on it, I don't think that any of it was by luck or chance. Amy was conceived to be me & Michael's daughter. We just had to fight our way through lots of obstacles to get to her.